so my brother and me both play the piano
i love it, him... not so muchsee, he's at that phase everyone who plays the piano seems to kinda go thru where he doesn't wanna play anymore
and my mum's favorite argument for him to continue is that it'll attract girls - or guys
of course my brother did not like thatwhen she told him and basically expressed that it was a shit argument
well, and then she continued that he'll be happy about it at some point cause everyone will want to have sex at some point and the piano apparently attracts people
she then kinda went on about that? like... he's gonna want to fuck someone and that playing the piano is apparently attractive
i mean she did say girls or guys which is nice for inclusion and everything but like
her basic argument was invalidating asexuality
(guess i really am gonna need that powerpoint about asexuality at some point)
which made me very uncomfortable
and cause we were eating / had been eating in my case i asked to leave the table
cause uncomfortable (especially bout sexuality) = urge to go to my room and block out the world
of course my dad's comment on why i wanted to leave didn't make it better cause he joked i was gonna watch porn
wHy
so basically my family really needs some education about aromanticism and asexuality which i'm not really willing to give up my place in the closet for
(wow, this did really help)
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